A year later

Why
Hmm.... never really thought about it.
I guess because in the four and a half years of being together we managed to get through good and bad times, in a peaceful-not-so-rocky-way. we see each other as two different and far from perfect people who learn to be a better person and together, the process is much more easier and fun. We both don’t want to lose our personality and independence but at the same time happily giving up some because we know that that is so worth it. giving each other enough space to grow alone as much as growing together and trying not to grow apart. We basically have same ideas on big issues on life and the differences is still acceptable. trying to be the best of friends.
And to be honest, maybe we’re a little bit bored and need more excitement. Heh heh.

I never felt that I have found the ONE because I have never searched for it. he just happened the most comfortable way (I know that this sentence doesn’t make any sense or whatever, but that is how I felt).

What I’ve learned so far
When I was a kid, I wonder why mum’s so cross if bap had to work late or work on week ends. Well, after one year of marriage, I’ve learned that not being able to be together on the time you’re suppose to is sucks!!!!! I know that he has to do it, that it’s the best and I spent the whole evening with him the rest of the weekdays, but I can’t help feeling crappy if I couldn’t be with him on week end. It’s just not the same if he is not around.
accept each other’s annoying habit and realizing that changing them will be useless.
Him: smoking, driving carelessly, sleeping in his nice t’shirts
Me: nag nag nag nag nag nag

People said that you can fall in love all over again in the same person and I just can’t wait to feel it. then lo and behold…….. I did. I just did not expect it to happen this soon. I mean, it’s only a year and we still adjusting to live together.

Wish
Happy first anniversary, chubbs.
Wish that the almighty one always bless us and keep us from bad things.
Wish that we could grow up and grow old together.
Wish that together, we could be a better person.
I don’t wish to live happily ever after, but I know we could be happy most of the time.


why didn’t I think of giving coffee (see picture above) for our wedding souvenir? Well, I guess mum wouldn’t let me anyway ;p