Magic numbers

There are several ‘magic numbers’ in human age that some people considered special: thirteen, eighteen, tweny one, thirty, forty for example. they are giving much hoot if one is nearing those numbers. On these numberss, one’s supposed to have reached certain stage of life. ‘coming of age’ (I have a vague understanding of this phrase. Can anyone explain?) they say. Something like that.

In mia famiglia it was the first birthday.
I think it begun when my cousins started to have children of their own. They usually throw a big family gathering to celebrate their kids first birthday. As for the coming of age thing, I think is about the baby leaving babyhood and coming into toddlerhood. Although I seriously suspect that the baby won’t be realizing this one bit.

Seventeenth is the general magic numbers in my society.
One can watch the 17 tahun ke atas movies (like anyone in the cinemas care how old you are!!!!) and legally permitted to drive. I guess these symbolize freedom, totally in charge of yourself and an early step to leave your nest (=parents) although one’s still totally dependent of them. well, I didn’t feel anything different on my 17th birthday. I already watch those movies and had my license (illegally, of course. Heh heh). As for freedom, me mum promised that I could get all the freedom I want in college which will start in a year. not a big deal.

Then come the big three-oh.
Phew.
My siblings consider this as magic. Maybe it represents the end of the goofing off era. No more fooling around. Time to settle down. Be a little bit serious and really-really be responsible about your life.
It just feels weirdly different that i can no longer say ‘I’m twentysomething”.
I’m thirtysomething.
geez, am so ancient!!!!!
Hehehehe………